I used to tell friends and remind myself... a relationship is only good when 1+1=3. If 1+1 = half... if you are compromising yourself, if you are giving more than him, if you are in it because you are scared, then he is not for you lah...
another saying by 'famous people'.... sometimes you need to let go, and the bird will fly back to you.
on the other hand, if there is no urgency or need to 'give up', then hang on lor... but NOT giving too much of yourself... hang on, and be yourself, and see how... if it will fade away, it will fade away... you will know...
only YOU would know what is your treshold. NEVER NEVER let anyone push you into something you are not, or become someone else (scared, compromising etc)... so if you feel you are taking too much shit... my advice is... walk away.
hard to do, i know. but trust me. it is for the better. walk away.. and be yourself.
better alone than badly accompanied.
- W
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